I wonder what it is that dictates the constant evolution of a social group, and particularly the relationship of two people in said group. I'm not sure how many others experience a similar phenomenon, but I oscillate my attention heavily between members -- wherein I actually will get irritated and almost "align" myself against the others. There's no real malicious intent, but sometimes ya know "Jenny needs to shut up these days..." or whatever.

Sometimes I isolate myself, and sometimes I witness others almost exiled -- but we always make a conscious effort to keep the group intact; Even if that means sitting them down and saying, "Jenny, sometimes you just need to shut up." I'm trying to be ambiguous in attempt to save myself the effort explaining very complicated examples, but I've found that I can just put in a little extra effort with that person to even the balance out; Just another avenue of life that I'm seeing I can take control of -- and it just pumps me up. It's a good day, tomorrow's Friday... weekend's present opportunities. Heh heh.

Incinerating regards,